These lists are incomplete. I wish I’d been keeping track my whole life. If you know of a show I played in another band or a song I sang with someone else, etc, please let me know so I can add it to the archive here!!

backup vocals/duets:

Solitaire - Krill (Krill’s last show, Brooklyn 2015)

Hard to Wait - iji (~2016/17 tour together)

Year of the Rabbit - Gabby’s World (2016 tour together, and more)

Eyes for You - Gabby’s World (various shows & 2016 tour together?)

Same Sun - Real Estate (2017 together)

It’s Real - Real Estate (2017 tour together)

Across the Multiverse - Dent May (2017 in Seattle and Brooklyn)

What I Want - Cende (various shows over the years)

All My Time is Wasted - Hannah Jadagu (Webster Hall ~2022)

Flag (into the fray) - Dear Nora (NYC 2023)

Thank you (Dido cover) - with Emily Yacina and Gabby’s World

Restore - Gabby’s World (at solo show at Topos, 2023)

Middle C - Fashion Brigade (NYC August 2019)

Rumblin’ - Soft Ronin (NYC 2022)

Chicago (Sufjan Stevens cover) with Japanese Breakfast (Salt Shed July 2023)

Plastic pyramid - Omni (at TV Eye, 2024)

Nowhere - Katie Von Schleicher (on May 2024 tour together, backup vocals and keyboard)

“What Love Is” and “Leaving It All Behind“ with Soft Surface (NYC 2024 and 2025)

Found You Again - Fantasy of A Broken Heart and Jordana (a couple times during September 2025 tour)

Beast On Beast - Gabby’s World (2026 Next Thing Anniversary shows)

“Glory” and “Flower” backup vocals with Liz Phair (2026 in Portland ME and Albany NY on The Flannel and The Fury tour)

2026

Bass + vocals when Lexie listed

2/06/26, New York NY - Nightclub 101 - Bass and vocals in Lexie [Hugo Stanley on drums] with keiyaA, & marbles’ brother olaf - for shaad magazine

5/13/26 Queens NY - Cassette - guitar and backup vocals in Dear Nora for “Early Dear Nora” night [Alex Bailey on bass, Luke Pyenson on drums]

10/1/26 Queens NY - Cassette - guitar, bass, and backup vocals for Palehound and Thanks For Coming songs (as part of a collaborative trio set)

2025

Bass + vocals when Lexie listed

1/17/25, Brooklyn NY, Alphaville - Lexie [Gabe Smith on drums] with Krill 2, Spirit Was

2/15/25, Long Beach CA - Vine - Lexie [Matt Pac on drums], Smooth Jas, Cameron Wisch & Emily Yacina duo - Bass and backup vocals in Smooth Jas

3/24/25 Brooklyn NY, Baby’s All Right - Lexie [Hugo Stanley on drums] & Moontype [late show]

6/27/25 Queens NY, TV Eye - All Dogs, Lexie [Hugo Stanley on drums], Five Hundred Bucks

8/15/25, NYC, Nightclub 101 - sang “What Love Is” and “Leaving It All Behind“ with Soft Surface

8/24/25, Brooklyn NY, Union Pool - Lexie [Hugo on drums] with Lowertown, Venus Twins, Kolb - rallying for Zohran Mamdani

2024

Bass + vocals when Lexie listed

1/28/24 New York NY, Bowery Ballroom - Lexie [Hugo Stanley on drums] (with Ian Sweet, Please Don’t Destroy, DJ Aiden Noell)

4/16/24 Brooklyn NY, Purgatory - Lexie [Hugo Stanley on drums] (with Old Maybe and Talulah Paisley)

8/23/24 Queens NY, Cassette - Lexie [Hugo Stanley on drums] with Mallory Hawk and Soft Surface; sang “What Love Is” and “Leaving It All Behind“ with Soft Surface

10/6/24 Brooklyn NY, Living Gallery - Lexie [Hugo Stanley on drums] with Princess520, Branching Out, flag of human exclusion

2023

Bass + vocals when Lexie listed

3/31/23 Queens NY, Cassette - sang “flag (into the fray)” with Dear Nora

6/3/23 Brooklyn NY, Littlefield - played live improvisational guitar for Gabriel Gara Lonning and Emily Dayton Evans as “One Million Girls” (comedy show) with Sheria Mattis, Mia Gladstone, and DJ Chelsea Manning

7/13/23 Brooklyn NY, The Broadway - Lexie with Zoom Dweeby, Birthday Girl

7/15/23 Brooklyn NY, Baby’s All Right - sang “What I Want” with Cende

10/24/23 - 10/30/23 - Played guitar and sang back-up vocals in Good Morning (on tour with Lauren Early opening, played Zebulon in LA, Venice West in Venice, Quartyard in San Diego, 10/27 day off, Chain Reaction in Anaheim, Catalyst Atrium in Santa Cruz, and The Independent in San Francisco) [Cameron Wisch on drums, Alex Bailey on bass, Katie Von Schleicher on keys and backup vocals, Liam Parson and Stefan Blair on guitars and lead vocals)

11/1/23 Brooklyn NY - The Broadway - Lexie (with Stephen Steinbrink and Cole Pulice)

12/2/23 Brooklyn NY - Murmrr Ballroom - sang “flag (into the fray)” with Dear Nora

2022

8/20/22 played keys and sang back-up vocals in Gabby’s World at Smog, Bard College

2020

Bass + vocals when Lexie listed

January Bell House performed Grown-Ups 3 Theme song for live reading

3/1/20 Bern Fest!: A Bernie Sanders Fundraiser - DJ’d as DJ Franz Charcoal, with 79.5 and Jigsaw Youth (fundraiser for Bernie Sander’s campaign)

3/7/20 Queens NY at Planet X - Lexie [Luke Pyenson on drums] (with Brunch, The Glow, DJ Silky Smooth)

10/31/20 livestream - Lexie, House of Nod Halloween Special

2018

Bass + vocals when Lexie listed

2/8/18 Brooklyn NY, Baby’s All Right - Lexie [Gabe Smith on drums] with Nadine and Barrie

2/18/18 Philadelphia PA - First Unitarian Church, Lexie [Gabe Smith on drums] with Homeshake

3/23/18 Brooklyn NY @ Brooklyn Bazaar - DJ set as DJ Frankie Cosmos, alongside DJ Vagabon & DJ Elia Einhorn (fundraising for United We Dream)

10/13/18 Bronx NY, Rodrigues Coffee House - Lexie [Doug Bleichner on drums] with Honey Cutt, Noods

10/21/18 Brooklyn NY, Baby’s All Right - Lexie [Felix Walworth on drums] “Le Sigh Last Show” with Emily Yacina, Susie Derkins, Anna Altman, and Clara Joy

11/15/18 Brooklyn NY, Elsewhere Zone 1 - Lexie [Gabe Smith on drums], backup vocals in Gabby’s World on Eyes For You and Vignette / Lesson, backup vocals and guitar with Emily Yacina on Thank You cover

2017

Bass + vocals when Lexie listed

2/20/17 Brooklyn NY @ The Glove - Thanks For Coming, Lexie, Old Table, Mike Kolb

4/14/17 Brooklyn NY @ Baby’s All Right - Lexie, gobbinjr, Yucky Duster

4/28/17 Brooklyn NY @ The Glove - Lexie, Breathers, Turnip King, ellen o.

5/26/17 Brooklyn NY, Baby’s All Right - sang “What I Want” with Cende

6/7/17 Boston MA, Brighton Music Hall - Lexie [Avery Tucker on drums] with Girlpool and Ian Sweet

6/9/17 Brooklyn NY - Warsaw - Lexie [Doug Bleichner on drums] with Girlpool and Ian Sweet

6/10/17 Philadelphia PA - Union Transfer - Lexie [Avery Tucker on drums] with Girlpool and Ian Sweet

6/11/17 Washington DC - Rock and Roll Hotel - Lexie [Avery Tucker on drums] with Girlpool and Vagabon

6/23/17 Brooklyn NY, Baby’s All Right - Lexie [Casey Weissbuch on drums] with Palm and Palberta

10/13/2017 Brooklyn NY, Baby’s All Right, Lexie with Nnamdi Ogbonnaya, & L'Rain

11/10/2017 Brooklyn NY, Elsewhere, Lexie [Gabe Smith on drums] with Anamanaguchi, Skylar Spence,

12/02/17 Brooklyn NY, H0L0 - Lexie [Gabe Smith on drums] with Jonah Furman, and readings by Thérèse Chehade, Laura Brown-Lavoie, Amanda Dahill-Moore, for the Big Big Wednesday Issue 5 Release Party

12/10/17 Brooklyn NY - scully’s den (house show), “Cende’s last show” - sang What I Want with Cende

12/8/17 New York NY - Barnard University Altshul Atrium WBAR winter formal, Lexie (with Sammus, Latasha Alcindor, and Sunspeaker) [Hugo Stanley on drums]

2016

April 1st - May 1st sang backup on Gabby’s World set for Year of The Rabbit

Some shows in April 2016 - Played guitar with Anna McClellan for Fire Flames (Greta, David, and Luke backed her up on just this song while touring together)

7/22/16 - Elvis Guesthouse Aaron solo?? - sang backup

8/6/16 New York NY Bowery ballroom (with FC) - sang “What I Want” with Cende

12/29/16 New York NY Elvis Guesthouse - Dick Move Records Presents: Lexie (first Lexie show - bass and vocals always, Alex Bailey on guitar and vocals always, Doug Bleichner on drums), Kate NV, Robert Dean, Diceboi Berra, The BJ Rubin Show, DJ Owen Kline

2015

Bass + backup vocals when Porches listed unless otherwise stated

2/5/15 Boston MA - Tufts (Crane Room, Paige Hall) - Porches with Peaer & Gggghosts

2/6/15 nyc bowery ballroom - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)

2/13/15 worcester ma clark university - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)

2/19/15 New York NY Lincoln center’s film center amphitheater - Bass in Gabby’s World

4/26/15 Allentown PA - Cedar Beach Park hosted by WMUH (Muhlenberg) - Porches., with LVL UP, Nam Le, Downies, Boxelders, Sean Skahill

4/2/15 Brooklyn, NY Baby’s All Right - Porches, DJ set by Empress Of
4/3/15 Middletown, CT Wesleyan University – Eclectic House - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)

5/26/15 New York, NY Elvis Guesthouse - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)
5/27/15 Philadelphia, PA PhilaMOCA - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)
5/28/15 Cleveland, OH Mahall’s - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)
5/29/15 Chicago, IL Beat Kitchen - Porches
5/31/15 Madison, WI The Frequency - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)
6/1/15 Fort Wayne, IN The Tiger Room at CS3 -Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)
6/2/15 Detroit, MI PJ’s Lager House - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)

6/3/15 Toronto, ON Smiling Buddha - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)
6/4/15 Montreal, QC La Vitrola - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)
6/5/15 Winooski VT, The Monkey House - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)
6/6/15 Cambridge, MA Elks Lodge - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)

6/28/15 Mountainville NY outdoor concert @ Storm King - Porches (& Frankie Cosmos)

7/25/15 BK @ Celebrate Brooklyn opening for Sylvan Esso - Bass and backup vocals in Porches

7/26/15 - BK @ The Aloha BBQ (car wash) - last show on bass and backup vocals in Porches

8/20/2015 BK @ Baby’s All Right - Porches (sang backup as a guest), Pile, Grass Is Green, Two Inch Astronaut, Washer

10/23/15 “last” Krill show at Silent Barn, Brooklyn - sang guest vocals on Solitaire

10/25/15 NYC @ Elvis Guesthouse - Ronald Paris (sang backup as a guest), with Anna McClellan, Cameron Wisch

10/29/15 NYC @ Webster Hall (Grand Ballroom) - Ronald Paris (sang backup as a guest), with Youth Lagoon & Moon King

10/31/15 Brooklyn @ house show - played bass and sang backup vocals with Gabby’s World (as a duo)

2014

Bass + backup vocals when Porches listed unless otherwise stated

1/10/14 Brooklyn NY @ Silent Barn - Porches. w/ My Dad, Gunk, Flagland

2/1/14 Brooklyn NY @ Cameo - Porches, w/ Howth, Stranger Cat

2/8/14 Woodbury CT @ Woodbury Music Shop - Porches “solo” (sang backup as a guest)

2/17/14 Annandale-on-Hudson NY, Bard College

2/21/14 Brooklyn NY @ Brooklyn Night Bazaar - Porches. w/ Widowspeak, Jessica Pratt, Ponyhof

2/28/14 Philadelphia PA @ Johnny Brenda’s - Porches w, Drgn King, Mumblr

3/1/14 Brooklyn NY @ Baby’s All Right - Frankie Cosmos, Porches, Drgn King, Amanda X

3/13/14 Brooklyn NY @ Shea Stadium - Porches

3/14/14 Annandale-on-Hudson NY, Bard College @ SMOG - Porches w/ Alex G, Pinegrove, People Talking

3/15/14 Waltham MA @ Cholmondeley's Coffee House (Brandeis) - Porches, with Painted Zeros

3/16/14 Winooski VT @ Monkey House - Porches w/ Paper Castles, Rayland Baxter, DJ Disco Phantom

3/17/14 Bennington VT @ Down Caf - Porches.

3/18/14 Albany NY @ The Low Beat - Porches, w/ The Slaughterhouse Chorus, Soft powers

3/19/14 Purchase NY @ The Stood - Porches, Quarterbacks, Baby Mollusk

3/20/14 Saratoga Springs NY @ Skidmore College / Falstaf’s - Porches

3/21/14 - Ithaca NY, cornell @ watermargin, Porches, summer people, mamahuhu, (& frankie cosmos solo)

3/22/14 - something Porches w/ Summer Ppl

3/24/14 Cleveland OH @ Mahall’s, Porches w/ Meep Murple, Star Sings

3/25/14 Kalamazoo MI @ Mill Haus, Porches

3/27/14 Bloomington IN @ The Bishop, Porches w/ Frankie And The Witch Fingers, Wet Blankets, The Bangs

3/21/14 Ithaca NY @ Cornell @ Watermargin - Porches, Summer People, Mamahuhu, Frankie Cosmo (solo)

4/4/14 bronx ny fordham @ rodrigues coffee house - Porches, (w/ Frankie Cosmos)

4/10/14 Brooklyn NY @ Baby’s All Right - Porches

4/11/14 New Haven CT @ Toads Place - Porches, with Wet & Princess Nokia

5/10/14 Danbury CT @ Heirloom Arts Theatre, Ronald Paris (sang backup as a guest), Frankie Cosmos, Two Humans, Loner Chic, Babysnakes - Sang with Porches

5/17/14 Brooklyn NY @ Shea Stadium - Porches, Tanks Amigo, Bent Shapes, Laughing Fingers

5/30/14 Kingston NY @ BSP Lounge - Porches, Sleepers Bells, What Moon Things, Frankie Cosmos

5/31/14 New York, NY @ Destination Moon (Hosteling International, at 104th st and Amsterdam Ave) - Porches w/ Plume Giant, Rivergazer, Graveyard Lovers, Relations, Everything Forever, Noelle Tannen Orchestra

6/11/14 Brooklyn NY @ Baby’s All Right - Porches, Kevin Morby, Your Friend, Frankie Cosmos

6/13 Brooklyn, NY Silent Barn - Northside Festival - Porches

7/12/14 Brooklyn NY - Secret Project Robot - IMPOSE & EXPLODING IN SOUND PRESENT - Ronald Paris (sang backup as a guest), Trace Mountains, Flashlight O, Cousin Brian, Baked, Mannequin Pussy, Flatland, Ed Schrader’s Music Beat, Emily Red, Roomrunner, Ricky Eat Acid, Guerrilla Toss, “Muscle Car”, Pile, Alex G, Big Ups, Tyvek

7/29/14 to 8/7/14 - Porches full band and Frankie Cosmos Solo opening for Hospitality - double duty tour

8/23/14 - NYC - bowery ballroom, Porches w/ Hooray For Earth, Grooms

8/30/14 Kutztown PA Spaghetti House - Porches, Mt. Honey, Pinegrove, Ghost Dads, Frankie Cosmos - I think we both were “solo” but I probably sang with Porches

9/19/14 to 10/18/14 - Frankie Cosmos and Porches double duty tour

10/22/14 - Baby’s Presents 1st Annual CMJ daycare party - Ultimate Painting, Ryley Walker, Sunflower Bean, TONSTARTSSBANDHT, King Gizzard & The Lizard Wizard, White Reaper, Ronald Paris (sang backup as a guest), J Fernandez, ICEWATER, Celestial Shore, SPLASHH, Wampire, Caveman, Girlpool

10/25/14 Brooklyn NY - Death By Audio - Arbutus + Terrible Records + JMC CMJ Showcase - Porches w/ TOPS, Lydia Ainsworth, Regal Degal

11/14/14 Middlebury VT at Middlebury college - Porches

12/12/14 Brooklyn NY @ Palisades - Porches w/ LVL UP, What Moon Things, Cantina

12/13/14 Brooklyn - MatchaBar (private event) w/ Porches

12/17/14 nyc - webster hall (the studio) - late bloomers fundraiser for ny foundling - Ronald Paris (sang backup as a guest), (with Frankie Cosmos) & Wynter Gordon

2013

Bass + backup vocals when Porches listed unless otherwise stated

1/11/13 New York NY @ Cake Shop - Porches, Laser Background, Pow Wow!, Ball of Flame Shoot Fire

2/9/13 Tivoli NY @ Root Cellar @ Bard College - I didn’t perform but this show goes on this list special because it’s the night I met Gabby! Porches (ended up being solo but he brought me to sing with him and then changed his mind once we were there), Hand Habits, Attic Abasement, Told Slant, Small Wonder (with special guest Gabby Smith)

2/15/13 NYC @ Cake Shop - Speck Mountain, Porches, Painted Zeros, Mara Connor

2/22/13 SUNY Purchase @ The Stood - Krill, The Rotaries, Porches, Frankie Cosmos

3/2/13 Bronx NY @ Teh Olive Garden - Cave Cricket, Porches, Joey Molinaro, Natasha Jacobs, The Big Con

4/12/13 Philadelphia PA @ Beaumont Wherehouse - Mahogany Stompers, Porches, Charmaines Names, On The Water

5/13 Hoboken NJ @ Lincoln Continental - drums for DC Schneider (as a duo with Leonie)

5/17/13 Brooklyn NY @ Shea Stadium - Porches, Laser Background, Cloud Becomes Your Hand, Desert Sharks

6/2/13 Philadelphia PA @ Golden Tea House - Everyone Everywhere, SIRS, Porches., Little Big League

6/15/13 Brooklyn NY @ Big Snow - GIMME TINNITUS and Exploding In Sound present: EISGTNSIDE13 (unofficial Northside party) - Pile, Speedy Ortiz, Two Inch Astronaut, Grass Is Green, Ovlov, Hive Bent, Fat History Month, Porches.

6/23-7/13 Germany/Netherlands tour playing drums and back-up vocals for Porches duo (tour with Frankie Cosmos duo, and DC Schneider)

8/16/13 Brooklyn, NY @ Shea Stadium - Porches, Sirs, My Dad, The Para-Medics, Full Blued

8/20/13 Brooklyn, NY@ 285 Kent - Butter The Children (album release show)

8/24/13 Brooklyn NY @ Living Gallery - Aaron Maine of Porches (sang backup as a guest), Rivergazer, k i d s, Turnip King, What Moon Things

9/6/13 Brooklyn, NY @ shea stadium Porches Record Release @ w/ Summer People, NOATS, Frankie Cosmos

9/7/13 Binghamton NY w/ Porches?

9/8/13 Ithaca NY @ Watermargin @ Cornell University - Porches, Summer People, Underground River, Hardbodies (Feat. Isabel Reidy)

9/10/13 New Paltz NY @ Oasis - Porches, What Moon Things, Quarterbacks, Fraternal Twin

9/13/13 Purchase, NY @ The Stood, SUNY Purchase - Porches, Bad Cello, Alex G., Turnip King

9/14/13 Philadelphia, PA Porches, Sirs, Little Big League, Ghost Light, Gunk @ Golden Tea House

9/26/13 New York NY @ Cake Shop - Porches., Laser Background, Isadora, What Moon Things

10/5/13 Purchase NY @ SUNY Purchase The Stood - Angel Olsen, Pillars & Tongues, Aaron Maine (sang backup as a guest)

10/18/13 Brooklyn DBTS (but before it was called that) w/ Krill, Porches, Frankie Cosmos, Full-Blued

10/19/13 NYC @ Silent Barn - EIS 2-year anniversary/CMJ showcase: Porches, Krill, Two Inch Astronaut, Grass Is Green, Palehound, Kal Marks, Ovlov, Pile, Fat History Month, Roomrunner, Speedy Ortiz

10/26/13 Philadelphia PA @ Philamoca - Laser Background, Porches., Ghost Light

11/8/13 Brooklyn NY - Silent Barn - Sleeping Bag, Shark?, Rozwell Kid, Porches

11/22/13 Boston, MA @ T.T. The Bears - Porches, Krill, Summer People, Pile

11/24/13 Philadelphia PA @ Golden Tea House - Porches, SIRS (last show), Glocca Mora, Idiot Kid

12/3/13 New Paltz NY - oasis w/ Krill, Pile, Porches, Quarterbacks, What Moon Things, Lilith Velkor, Weather Underground, Earl Boykins, Frankie Cosmos

12/5/13 Brooklyn NY - Shea Stadium - “Big Snow Farewell Party”: Porches, Krill, Baked, LVL UP, lost boy ?, Bueno, + DJ Peter Fonda

12/13/13 NYC - Barnard at the Diana Center Oval - WBAR Winter Formal: Porches, Diarrhea Planet, Designer, No Regrets Coyote

12/30/13 Brooklyn NY @ Baby’s All Right - Exploding in Sound + Friends: Porches, Krill, Pile (acoustic), Ovlov, Gnarwhal, Woozy, Bad History Month, Two Inch Astronaut, Grass is Green, Baked, Roomrunner, Dead Wives, Speedy Ortiz

2012

Bass + backup vocals when Porches listed unless otherwise stated

4/2012 Bronx NY - Teh Olive Garden - drums in Period Blood

5/2012 NYC - drums in Period Blood (as “Small Moms”) for Friends Battle Of The Bands

7/26/12 Brooklyn NY @ Big Snow Buffalo Lodge - Law & Order, Porches, No One & The Somebodies, Frankie Cosmos, Cave Cricket

7/28/12 Brooklyn NY @ Suburbia - Summer People, Porches, Mouth to Mouth to Mouth, Living Room

8/16/12 Brooklyn NY @ Big Snow Buffalo Lodge - Porches, My Dad, Water House, Fat History Month

8/24/12 Brooklyn NY @ Legion Bar - Porches. & Stolen Girls

8/25/12 Bridgehampton NY @ Nova’s Ark - Adventure Bandits Art Club (art show) with: Bellyfire, Eliza Callahan, Porches, and James Ryan

9/6/12 Brooklyn NY @ Shea Stadium - Liquor Store, Porches, Little Big League

10/6/12 Brooklyn NY @ Big Snow Buffalo Lodge - Porches, Ghost Light, Evil Sword

10/12/12 Philadelphia PA @ The Great Indoors - Porches, Tamarin, On The Water

10/13/12 Ithaca NY, Cornell @ JAM (Just About Music) Performance Space - Porches, Cattle Drums, Celestial Shore, Underground River

10/19/12 Brooklyn NY @ Brooklyn Fireproof - Porches

12/1/12 Brooklyn NY @ Big Snow Buffalo Lodge - Porches, Krill + LVL UP + Advaeta

12/6/12 Purchase NY @ SUNY Purchase The Stood - Porches, Underground River, Morrison Brook, Cottage Jefferson

12/8/12 Ithaca NY @ The Haunt - Ithaca Underground Festival, Big Day In: Porches, Summer People, Shellshag, Cerce, Old Wounds, Girl Scouts, Vaura, Black Throat Wind, Ohne-ká and the Burning River, BATISTA, GypsyGetsShotgun, King Sized Pegasus, Oscar Albis Rodriguez

12/27/12 Brooklyn NY @ Shea Stadium - Porches, Bad Cello, The Rotaries

2011

2/4/11 Brooklyn NY @Goodbye Blue Monday - drums in Milk Ghost (with Jesse Carsten, Faith Newton, Hillyeye, Vividly Dim)

4/22/11 New York City @ NYU earth day street fair - drums in Milk Ghost